My 4 year old daughter has had a very rough life. When she was 8 months old a tv fell on her and she had a skull fracture. Since then she was mentally and physical abused by her father. She was also molested at the age of 3 by her father. She was in counseling, which wasn't helping at all. She is very aggressive and throws tantrums all the time. She will not follow directions at all. She has problems being in public and around different unfamiliar faces. She also doesn't like loud noises or bright lights. I've been doing research on different things and the closest that i found could be wrong is ODD or Autism. Please if you have an suggestions let me know.